I guess with time most of us are in agreement that two are better than one. True children of God looking for someone to share the rest of their lives know that our culture is Jesus culture. Coming together as born again Christians limits the differences that are common in ungodly relationships. Sons of God be honest with yourselves why is it taking you ages to find help mates?

Love is a choice. The success of long lasting relationship is largely based on real unconditional love. Where is the source of unconditional love? The authentic source is God, for He is love.
Love does not seek its own, thus I will dedicate myself to my man, love him, esteem him more than myself. What kind of man will draw my devout love? Must be a true disciple of Jesus. I am not looking for just a born again Christian, but the one who has counted the cost of following Jesus. He has died to self and answered to the call of absolute surrender and daily allows Jesus to reign in his conscience, will, thoughts, emotions and desires.